There may be days when you don’t feel motivated or inclined to try again especially when you have been trying for so long.
Relationships can sometimes become overwhelming especially when your goals do not align with those of your partner. If this happens to be the case, it may be time to re-evaluate your relationship or time to move on to someone new.
You may think it’s hard to do especially if you have been together for a long period of time. Oh well, it’s still the dating phase of the game so why not ensure its what you need on the long wrong. If it’s not working out, take a hike knowing you’ve given it a try. It’s better not trolling along than to be completely burnt at the end of the day.
Learn to patiently wait for someone who will share and meet your needs than hold on to someone who doesn’t share your values.